What To Do When Your Ex-Boyfriend Calls You On The Phone!

After the outrageous experience of the breakup, life has started being fun again. You have forgotten all about your ex boyfriend and the trauma you passed during the breakup period. You were terribly upset at the situation. You asked so many questions about yourself. Now you have overcome it. You are happy once more. He is no longer on your mind. You have moved forward, meeting new people, making new friends on a casual relationship. You can finally talk about him without necessarily thinking about him. All of a sudden, after quite a long time, he or she calls your cell phone. You don’t know what to do. You stand there, with your cell phone in your hand confused!

Oh my GOD! What does he want from me now? I thought we called it quits two years ago. After I have got through the pains of breakup, during which I was upset, depressed and heartbroken, he is now calling me. What does he want to say? Why is this happening to me now?

Why are you confused? Remember you prayed for this opportunity just immediately after the breakup. Now it has happened, you are confused. Hey, why do you think he is calling you? You should ask yourself this question. Yes, it’s true he dumped you but have you realized you have improved tremendously in character. He wants you back! They have seen you are holding up well and heard you are moving along with new friends and they are jealous.

Why didn’t you call me a long time ago? Why did he have to wait until now? These are reasonable questions to ask, but actually calling you immediately after a breakup is never a good idea because he felt that at that point you were so desperate for re-union. Just after breakup, you were heart-broken, disoriented and upset. How can one makeup with someone who is wildly agitated, hurried and confused? At that point also, your self esteem is very low. These negative tendencies were very obvious and your ex sensed them and had to give you a break for the mean time.

He loves you and wants to re-unite with you. He was just simply waiting for the right time to make his move. Now is the time. You have finally fought your way out of the heart break. You have now made new friends, having fun and happy at last. Perhaps you have forgotten about your ex boyfriend. You are now an improved being.

Your cell phone suddenly rings, it is him. You don’t know what to do. You decide not to pick it. It rings, rings, rings and stops. You wonder what you are going to do the next time he puts a call through to you again.

First and foremost, you have got to access yourself. Play safe and take it cool. If you must talk to him, make it brief and straight to the point. If possible, make a one-sentence response or speech. This tactics will surely throw your ex off their feet and make them want to call you again. Definitely by now you must have figured out a better response.

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Timothy Orlando is a dating and relationship expert that is passionate about helping people find and keep their soul mate.